My dog understands the word “No,” so how are you going to tell me teenage boys don’t know the difference between rape and consent?
i don’t like the whole “you can’t love someone until you learn to love yourself” idea because uhhh
wow people who are hurt and abused and damaged deserve love just as much as someone else
love generally does not work when it’s one-sided. love is the interaction between one person and another entity, like another person or a book or a work of art
and usually when people have trouble loving others it’s because their previous relationships with people have taught them messed up ways of love
where do you think these people are going to learn healthy ways of love? from a magical wise space turtle in their heads? they have to go out there and love and hurt and make mistakes and learn what it’s like.
you can love someone the moment you start loving, okay? of course with time you eventually learn the deeper complexities and nuances, but you are not required to love yourself first
most of the time you can learn to love yourself at the same time that you love someone else
“You can’t love…” does not mean you possess an inability to love or you do not deserve it. The saying suggests that, rather than not deserving, you cannot instead effectively love another person until you deal with or acknowledge your own internal conflicts with loving yourself.
You’re right in that love is not one-sided, and I believe you’re right with the reference to someone having a problem with a past relationship; but that reasoning completely supports the saying to begin with. You have to go out there and love and hurt and make mistakes as you said. Confront your insecurities and hurt and acknowledge them. Don’t let them interfere with your current relationship. Learn or relearn to love yourself, before you can love another, again.
I believe orgasms are a mutation or a glitch in the human body. They don’t seem natural.
teenager on the internet seems to know where it s at in biology
I am almost 17. I understand biology. Humans are mutated.
An orgasm is an incentive to mate. el oh el
i am reminded that english is a flawed language every time I am forced to use “that that” in a sentence
when someone changes the topic in a conversation and you had something interesting to say